Two years ago this very week, we made the final decision that we would be making Aruba our future home. Prior to that, this island dream was already being developed, but a lot of details were being worked out. Aruba was the place that all of the details seemed to fall easily into place, especially the one where all four of us were in love with every single thing about this island. June 2014 was when we spent more than two weeks there looking at it through the eyes of “can we live here” instead of “this is an amazing place to take a vacation”. All answers were YES, we definitely could and want to live here. Then the fun began. I can still say fun, but wow, it has been A LOT of work! After all the research, planning, saving, selling, organizing, and finalizing what seems to be a million things, we are a little over two weeks away from our departure to Aruba. Along the way, many people have asked if I was nervous or scared or anxious and I would always answer no. I must admit, now that we are truly doing this, I am starting to officially freak out. Not in a negative way, but in a “oh my goodness, this is really happening, there is no turning back, we are actually doing this” excited kind of way. I guess we could change our mind now, but what a nightmare that would be! So, HERE WE GO! Operation Toes in the Sand is about to be COMPLETE!
For anyone considering a similar move, my number one piece of advice would be PLAN, PLAN, PLAN. If you are not a planner, I wish you much luck. If you do not have patience, you should probably just stay where you are. Here is a shout out to a couple places that have been super helpful to us over the past few months –
Residency Information/Permitting – We have enlisted the help of a company in Aruba called ASBA. They have been nothing but wonderful from the first conversation we had regarding taking care of everything we need to become residents in Aruba. All of the steps were explained in great detail, every question is answered promptly, and they have kept us informed for the past nine months that we have been working with DIMAS to have our paperwork in place when we get there. Now keep in mind, this is not over, as DIMAS is still working on their side, but ASBA has been a saving grace in what would have been a very frustrating situation. There is a fee for their services, but it has been a very worthwhile investment!
Shipping Company – Months ago, we contacted several shipping companies about transferring our goods to Aruba from Phoenix and we chose APX in Miami, Florida. Actually, most of the other places never even bothered to contact us after submitting requests for quotes (I will NEVER understand that business practice). APX is another company that has walked us through this process and never seemed to be irritated by my 40,000 e-mails and 20,000 phone calls with yet another question. Just last Friday and Saturday, our two pallets of boxes and our car were picked up at our home and are well on their way to Aruba right now. This is a scary thing to have pretty much everything you own at this point being taken away and you must trust the ones who are handling this piece of the move. Fingers crossed the trust and good feelings about APX continue! Thank you, Virginie and Walter for being our new “best friends”.
There are million other details that have needed finalized before our move (what about school, the dog, a house, bank accounts, phones, car registration, insurance, on and on and on). I am thankful to have worked with amazing people all along this journey who have been nothing but helpful. I must say, as noted before, the people of Aruba are so very helpful in every way and we would not be able to move there if that wasn’t the case. Every person we contact responds with complete answers and in a friendly way. I am actually still waiting to meet or deal with someone who seems to not be happy. When I do, I will smack them and say, “Do you realize how lucky you are to live in a place like this and how much hard work it takes to get here? Now, look at all of your other Aruban neighbors and act like them!” But I HIGHLY doubt that conversation will ever be necessary:)
Once we arrive, then the hard decisions will need to be made – really tough things like, what beach should we visit today? This blog will keep you posted on island life after arrival, so please stay tuned…